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The Busyness Treadmill: The Hidden Cost of Over-Committing (for Parents—and Everyone Else)
Many parents aren’t just busy—they feel like there’s never enough time. The days fill up quickly, and before you know it, you’re stretched thin and running on empty.
Not just for a few weeks or months—but for years on end. Sprinting becomes the new normal.
It can start to feel like you’re on a treadmill—constantly moving, putting in effort, but never quite getting the sense that you’re arriving anywhere.
Yet more importantly, you give up more than you realize when you say yes to everything.
What feels like improving your life—or your kids’ lives—keeping up, or maximizing potential can quietly drain your energy, patience, and presence.
At some point, you may start to notice the cost. And that’s where a small but powerful shift can begin: stepping out of the constant “yes” cycle and protecting a little more space for yourself and your family.
Having some breathing room in life isn’t something you’re given—you have to take it.
What that looks like is building in small moments of downtime, rest, and leisure—for you and your kids.
In the business world, there’s a saying: “Slack builds resilience.”
In fitness, rest between sets isn’t optional—it’s what actually improves performance.
The same is true in our lives. Without space, everything gets harder.
The good news? This doesn’t require a big overhaul. A calmer life starts with just a few brief moments of pause.
Having some breathing room in life isn’t something you’re given—you have to take it.
You can start small. And once you do, the payoff becomes clear.
That’s what today’s video is all about.
erika bugbee
I’m a global coach who works with teens, individuals, couples, and practitioners that are open and motivated to change.
